So after all this,we set out to Sainsbury's and Asda to buy my mother's recovery diet. I pride my mother on taking a positive attitude to this cancer,and she really went for it,feeding her body with all the good things that she knew would help to kill it. She also treated me to a pair of purple tights from the M & S sale (who says women can't have a bit of retail pleasure?) which I will wear with my Doc Martens. I did actually put my happy face on for my mother's sake,after having a little cry,threw on all my wonderful dangly jewellery,jazzed up my hair and put the world to rights.
In other news,my boyfriend didn't have a very good end to his night last night. It was his friend's 21st birthday,and they went out to Barnsley. Had a great time,got pissed and all that. But when I rang him this morning to see how he was and if he'd set off for Manchester,his reply was ''I'm actually on the bus to A + E'',which amazed me,as the only time he's been to A + E that I know of was in Salford (long story),but he explained that he'd fallen over and gashed his chin. Niiiiiiiice. So that got sorted,and I texted him after making my Marshmallow Squares this evening,and he rang me back to say that he thinks his drink may have been spiked. It's safe to say it is horrifying,had that actually occurred. I'm lucky not to have been a victim of date rape (having had various safety procedures drummed into me by my mother before I went out into the drinking world at 18 and watching Nikki Shadwick being a victim of date rape in Brookside at 9). My friends back home think I'm weird when I'm telling them to look after their drinks by putting their thumb in the top of their bottle,but better safe than sorry I think. There are scum out there who want to ruin the nights of partygoers,who take the law into their own hands. When no means no guys,take that for an answer. Women and men (yes,rape does happen to men,despite what some narrow minded people think) don't ask to be raped,due to the amount that they drink. The Government may put all these Drink Safe adverts out,but does it deter the frankly moronic and selfish actions of someone who goes out to spike an unsuspecting person's drink? No,it doesn't.
My boyfriend may call me Margaret Thatcher,but if I were Prime Minister,I would conduct drug searches on the bastards who make students',as well as adults' lives hell when we're out having a good time. Now if that turns me into a raging rightie,then goodness knows.